The Best Vibrators for Couples: Sharing is Caring

The phrase we are going to share is not intended to offend the person who coined it, but we truly dislike it because it makes no literary sense. First of all, it makes absolutely no sense to the reader. 'Hey folks, sprinkle a little marjoram and thyme on your sex and all your boring bedroom problems will be solved!' We understand; it is a cutesy way of encouraging people to be more adventurous in bed, and we are 100% in support of that sentiment. But here is the problem. Well-meaning individuals may claim that your sex life is bland if they advise you to spice it up, but this is not necessarily the case. We do not recommend adding spice – especially cayenne, since it will burn! – unless things have become a little bit predictable and you are, in fact, looking to add some metaphorical flavor (read on for some actual flavors!). It could be that your sex life is great and you simply wish to enhance it. Let's try something new together, perhaps a sex toy? If so, let's talk! We know a thing or two about this particular topic.

In this edition of the Angel's Secret blog, we will discuss some of the best vibrating sex toys for couples. We will also give you some tips on how to select your first or next vibrating toy.

Our goal is to let you know that a vibrator can be used by two people - just hand it off to your object of desire, or use it to stimulate them. There are not many adult toys that cannot be used with a partner. With the right dildo (vibrating or otherwise), you or your partner can use the harness to penetrate (pegging, anyone?) a playmate, or you can simply control it manually. The masturbator - or stroker - is a straightforward process. There are certain vibrating sex toys that are specifically designed for use with a sexual partner, and those toys are the first up on our list.

Cockrings that vibrate

Our first stop on our toy tour will be the vibrating cock ring. If you think about it, a cock ring is already a couple's toy. As a means of supporting and enhancing erection, cock rings bind the base of the penis in order to prevent the boner-building blood from leaving too soon. The erection is a win for both of you, but the vibrating cock doubles the satisfaction for both of you. In vibrating cock rings, the vibrator component may be removable, but can also be built-in, and can be positioned above, below, or both above and below. As the ring works at keeping the penis hard, the vibrator(s) buzz and throb in the path of a partner’s outer sweet spots – think clitoris, perineum, and outer anal area. In addition to the wearer experiencing vibration, some vibrating cock rings are remote control, while others are manual. Some are made of firm silicone and others are made of stretchier TPR or TPE. Vibrating cock rings are an ideal sex toy for couples, regardless of their specific features or materials. For beginners, we recommend a simpler version, such as the Happy Penis, while partners with a little cock ring experience can try our Vibrating Super Silicone Ring or We-Vibe's Pivot.



We-Vibe and Remote Vibrators for Couples

Continuing with the WE-Vibe (see how well that worked out! ), this is the second perfect vibrator for couples toy we're going to examine. The original We-Vibe was developed in 2008 by Bruce and Melody Murison, who were husband and wife at the time. Their vision was to provide (vaginal and penis owning) couples with a vibrator they could wear during sex, which would benefit both partners equally. As well as having two vibrating ends, the first We-Vibe (and all that followed) was shaped into a ‘U’ curve. Upon insertion, one contoured to nestle against the g-spot, while the other hugged over the clitoris. In addition, the insertable side of the device was sleek enough to allow the penis (or dildo) of a partner to move and thrust alongside it during sex. In addition to the original We-Vibe, there are now several variations available. The most significant addition to the original would be the We-Connect application. Designed to work with certain We-Vibe models, the mobile We-Connect app allows partners to control the We-Vibe via Bluetooth and WiFi. As an added bonus, webcam capabilities are available.


We-Vibe is not the only remote vibrator available, there are many others as well. Any remote controlled vibrator is a perfect sex toy for couples to share, simply give your partner the remote and have them activate or vary the vibration as the mood requires. Let’s set the scene, let’s say you are at a dinner party or maybe the movies. You are wearing vibrating pants under your favorite dress or jeans. This tactic could possibly cut date night short since you both might be distracted by the remote when you slip it into their hand and whisper the purpose of it into their ear. The Wearable Butterfly is another excellent remote option, however, you will have to use it in close quarters because it does not have wireless capabilities (we are working on them!).

Here are the best lubricants for couples

Despite not being technically a sex toy, a slippery lubricant can be an excellent addition to vibrators for couples. By eliminating friction, making penetration easier, and supporting, enhancing or taking over the body's natural lubrication, lube eliminates friction. It is extremely important to apply lube when getting involved in any anal play, including pegging, plugging, beads, fingers, or any penetration. Whenever possible, we recommend using a water-based lubricant; water-based lubricants are compatible with all toy materials and condoms. It is a reference to flavored lube, which we will segue into now. We mentioned flavors in our opening paragraph, after a spicy little story about cayenne. Our first point is that flavored lube has come a long way since the past versions of fake cherries and artificial bananas. Currently, you can drizzle some cherry burst or Passion Punch flavored deliciousness over a playmate to enhance oral or non-oral sex.



Choosing Sex Toys for You and Your Partner

Your research is complete. You have read all about our top vibrators for couples recommendations, and perhaps you have visited the Angel's Secret website and browsed a bit. Excellent! You probably have a vibrator or three in mind now, but if not, we’re here to help! We have an entire section of our website dedicated to help you make the right choice! The Sex Toys for Couples category includes the highest rated, most user-friendly toys and tools. Aside from the vibrating toys we have already talked about, you will also be able to find the brand new and completely innovative Satisfyer Partner Multifun (one of the most versatile adult toys we have ever seen), as well as classic favorites like the Diva Pro massager, as well as strap-on must-haves such as the New Comers Strap-on & Dildo Set and Feeldoe. We highly recommend the classic bullet as your first shared toy. In addition to being tiny and non-threatening, bullet vibes can also add just a little something extra to foreplay and sex, as they won't interfere with anything. The bullet can be used as a building block for the entire collection of sex toys if you and your playmate find it enjoyable.

One Last Recommendation

Our goal was to end this Angel's Secret blog with a bang (yup, pun intended! ), and so we have reserved the best one for last. May we introduce the Clone-A-Willly? You and a penis-owning partner can create an exact replica of this penis using this popular molding kit. We have received many concerns from our customers regarding their partner's reaction to a vibratory device in the bedroom. The vibrator can be used as a vibrator, or as sexy décor. The Clone-A-Willy is perfect for those who are concerned that their partner may not find their penis to be satisfying or enjoyable enough.

So, there you have it. Whether you’re planning on molding your favorite penis into a vibrator, cuffing up a playmate, strapping one on, or getting ready for some shared We-Vibe time, when you’re getting ready to introduce the very first toy to the bedroom or adding something new to your collection, we’re happy to help you and your partner along your sexy merry way. As always, we wish you safe and happy playtimes!

XO, Angel's Secret

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